Divorce Mediation

Divorce mediation is a process used for resolving conflict and a cost effective alternative to litigation.​

 

The 3 of us meet and discuss issues to be resolved. I am neutral and will not take sides. My goal is to reach an agreement that reflects both of your voices, needs and interests. As your mediator, I can help you move through issues and find new ground for resolution. Often, divorcing couples fall into the same fights and I can help to break the patterns.

 

​I will work with both of you to increase your understanding of each other and of your conflict. I will not make decisions for you, only you will decide what is best for your future.

 

​Conflict is painful. Most people have a drive to resolve it. When people understand the sources of conflict, there's a huge release of creative energy which leads to terrific brainstorming sessions about how to solve the problem and end the conflict.

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Once all the issues are on the table, we can begin to delve into different points to gain an increased understanding. When understanding is there, problem solving begins. As you and your spouse agree, I will begin to draft an Agreement reflecting your discussions of separation or divorce.​

 

How do I know my legal rights are protected?

Some couples who come to me want to avoid attorneys however, many others take the Agreement to separate attorneys for a 1-2 hour consultation. The attorney will read the Agreement and make sure you're informed of your legal rights and fully understand what you have agreed to before you sign. An attorney's fee for this sort of consultation will average between $600 and $1,500.

 

​After mediation, how do I file my divorce?

After the Agreement is signed, if appropriate, we can prepare and file the divorce papers for you in the courts.